I would add a poll, but I don't know how to.. so if anyone reads this... just leave a comment.
Before cancer James and I were planning on having babies, and had a VR to do so. We found out about the cancer, and found out his VR failed. So we had a testicular biopsy done and froze 1.1 million sperm. James said if something were to happen to him, he'd want me to continue on and have a baby.
What do you think? Should I? Shant I? I plan on if I decide to go ahead then I would wait until after the first of the year. My sister says it isn't fair for the child to not have a father. What about if I were to have gotten pg and then he died? Or what about those that are fatherless by choice? Is that any different? I figure they would have 2 great big brothers to tell them about their dad. What are your thoughts?